Beatitudes: Proverbs of JesusHappy is the one who is gentle (Matthew 5:5)
Jesus states a third paradoxical statement—“happy are the gentle.” It is puzzling because the word “gentle” includes a sense of submissiveness. To be happy is to submit to the authority of others. The more submissive you are, the happier.
Consistent with the synthetic parallelism style so often found in the Old Testament Proverbs, Jesus adds His explanation: “for they shall inherit the earth.” The passage is only understood in light of this explanation.
Why is such promise for reward associated with gentleness? Because it is not our nature to respond with gentleness; to not fight back. We are typically defensive or become argumentative or even vindictive. But to be gentle—in meekness and humility calmly give an explanation—is not our nature. It is supernatural.
Peter wrote much about submission. In fact, it is the major theme of 1 Peter: gentle submission is the Christian meter. 1 Peter 3:13 states, “And who is there to harm you if you prove zealous for what is good? But even if you should suffer for the sake of righteousness you are blessed (there is the Matthew 5 word for happy). And do not fear their intimidation, and do not be troubled. But sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence.”
It is supernatural. It is supernatural not to give too much credence to what people think or to what people say. To set aside Christ in your heart, to live for him rather than break down in tears or to become defensive, or to attack the other person requires supernatural help. Therefore it serves as a Christian meter.
Maybe you’ve been hurt by someone you have respected like a close friend, a coach, or a teacher, or a pastor, or even your parents, or your children. Respond with gentleness by putting Christ, and not them nor the hurtful words, at the center of your thoughts. Their words will mean little from the perspective of eternity in the Kingdom to come, but those with the gentle response “shall inherit the kingdom of God.”
